Let’s face it.. we are not solitary beings. We function and thrive when we move in multiples, or in relation with (an)other(s). It is rare to find someone who is not in any kind of relationship. It is unfortunately not so rare to find those who are not thriving, despite being connected to others. Just because it is in our nature does not mean that we are always going to get it right. That we are going to make all of our relationships work. Or even that we feel fantastic for being in the relationship. But failure is not an option, for when it works it brings such a boost to your life that you will never want to go without being connected again. So for all you love-addicts, like myself, who feel some improvement is needed: welcome! Please read on and discover what I can offer you to get to that next level.
Basic relationship requirements
These basics will always feature in any work that you will do with me on relationships.
- Freedom (autonomy & room for growth)
Get started with the online program: Stronger Relationships
This program offers you the opportunity to understand yourself and your relationships better. By working your way through the exercises and getting real about your needs it will give you a deeper insight into the elements that play into making a relationship work. This practical approach can be your way to strengthening your connections and finding more joy in them. Don’t wait until it is too late and you need counseling, start making your relationships stronger today…
Want to get to know me and my approach a bit better first? I have a number of live Facebook tips online, working my way down the following list. Please click on the picture and check out the videos on my page. See you there!
For those of you based in The Netherlands (Europe) I am also available for real-life couples-sessions. These are designed to be part of your process as a means of extra support or a deep-dive. Contact me with any questions about these or for alternatives if you are not NL based.
In a world where sex sells, porn is readily available and we are constantly bombarded with sexual messages, it is sometimes difficult to remember that the realm of sensuality and intimacy is so much larger than sex. In our relationships this can lead to needing more and more variety and stimulus to keep things sexy. Well, what if you could find a practice together that offered a different approach. Tantric touch involves slowing down and meeting each other as true beloveds. In our work together I will guide you, as a couple, in meeting in this sensual space where showing up is sexy, where breath is sexy, where the intensity comes from your being. Before we set up a session we will discuss your thoughts and questions. Your boundaries will be respected as will your safety.
As children we were playful and curious in our approach to our bodies. As we get older we think we know our likes and dislikes and act accordingly. But our bodies change, the mood changes, we learn new things through our partners, and still we often repeat the same. This session is a playful and curious exploration of your bodies. I will guide you in a slow mapping of what kind of touch you each like on every part of your body. Naturally we will be respecting your boundaries and only exploring what feels safe to you. So first we will discuss consent and how you two will communicate and how I will with the both of you. At the end of this session you will have a deeper and more complete picture of your own and your partners sensory likes and dislikes which will then open up your playing field together.
Rituals are powerful tools in setting up the intention for what is to come. In our very rushed lives we sometimes forget to make space for those moments that nourish our hearts, souls and bodies. Slowly depleting the intimacy of our relationships. During our time together we will explore the desires that you want to make more space for in your relationship and brainstorm how you could design a beautiful ritual around some of those. For the purpose of understanding we will also share a opening and closing ritual together. You will see how simple it can be and how this extra bit of attention will open a pathway to greater intimacy.