You are smart, responsible, active, independent and you know that all in life is relative. You are capable of expressing yourself, have a great sense of humor, are curious, socially aware and open minded. I believe you to be a kind hearted person. A shallow life is not for you. You want to live life to the fullest, in an optimistic and loving way. And so far you are doing rather well doing just that. And when you struggle? You seek help.
You and I
I am fascinated by the limiting rules and expectations people create for themselves and those in their lives, which they then trip over. So much of our frustration and loss of energy stems from this narrowed world view, these rules we have taken on as ours. Trying to fix our issues within that constraint often leads to little change. By training yourself in a greater flexibility and (self)confidence you will feel more equipped to rewrite the handbook. The essence of life, to me, is learning to really experience and connect to it. And life is constantly changing, moving, and challenging you to keep up, to move with it, to stay alert and keep evolving. Wouldn’t it be boring to be done learning with so much life still in front of you?
Do I want to solve your issues? Nope! I love that you have all the knowledge and ability to do that yourself. You are the leader of your life. Someone like me can offer you a new perspective, challenge your thinking, and create room for experimentation and learning. We could call it stretching or “stripping” your believes/patterns. This is your process, your passion, your boundaries, your definitions and your responsibility. You are in in the lead here, and I respect that.
When working with me you will discover that there is a method to my madness. These are the 5 building blocks I consider to be key in any client process:
- Explore – diving in and discovering what lies beneath the surface. What thoughts, emotions, behaviors are limiting you. Awareness is your starting point to any change.
- Transform – by bringing the previous to your consciousness, you can make more informed choices, you can change your perspective on them, re-frame in essence.
- Express – change affects those around you as well and as you need them to support you, it is important that you learn how to invite them to do so. This is also great practice for you to feel and experience if you really own your process, if you are your own biggest supporter.
- Structure – great things can be created from chaos, but when we want to implement and create footholds then structure is your best friend.
- Experience – time to bring your new you, your new viewpoint into practice and see if you have found the right way forward. Creating new habits and a new mindset.
This work can be done playfully, in a challenging way, through talking, experimenting, and so forth. I like using a mix. Now, please do not think that you MUST go through every step or that each service will even offer that whole range in one go. You decide what you need, at what pace, and with or without me. Just know that I think that you are beautiful and amazing, that you deserve love and connection, and that everything is available for you to have that in your life.
Daughter, sister, partner, lover, friend, colleague.
Woman, tantrika, powerful, direct, vulnerable, analytical, insightful, imperfect, honest, funny, sensitive, flexible, open minded, confrontational, kind and a little crazy.
Breast cancer patient, gym go-er, yoga practitioner, veggie garden amateur, arthouse fan, curious about life.
Please contact me on email@example.com to get acquainted and for further inquiries, any questions or setting up a call.
When you start following me on social media, you will no doubt find that breast-cancer has touched my life. I share my experiences and learnings on this journey too. Do reach out to me if you would like to be coached in that specific area or have suggestions for vlogs etc.
Body & Mind Language, Humanistic Counseling, Eastern & New Tantra and Bio-energetics, Master trainer, NLP, The Work, Jungian Dream Analysis, Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), Yoga, Meditation, Mindfulness, Chakra-work, Sexual Counseling, Orgasmic Meditation, Conscious Kink, ao. I am the eternal student.
These are some of my awesome teachers & inspirators: Tony Robbins, Byron Katie, Dawn Cartwright, Jos Dolstra, Layla Martin, Esther Perel, all the beautiful people in my life.
I am currently not affiliated with a branch organization because I have found this to be of little relevance to the quality of our work together and the success of our match. I had rather you use your own intuition and wits when you contact me to have a first chat.
Appointments can be cancelled or moved free of charge 48h ahead of time. After that 100% will be charged.